What do gents want from women?

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By marwan asmar

What do men want in a relationship with women could be a highly sexist question to ask. If you insist on putting it that way why not ask what do women want in a relationship with men? After all why not, since women should be just as demanding. Just to be more politically correct why not ask what do both sexes want in a relationship from each other?

Obviously the question is not only about sex though this enters into it but it's a lot more related to the relationship with each other, the kind of body language involved, the feel for each other, the kind of things one likes about the other party, and see the commonalities that exist between them.

If we go back to the original question of what do men want in a relationship with women we may see that a male may want exactly the same thing as what the female wants. Without wishing to seem pedantic, there is a paradigm of factors that are involved.

Attraction for one thing is a dominant factor, and its highly personal and subjective one. What two people feel for each other is almost unique and don't recur, or recur in a different way with other couples.

If a man finds one woman attractive, it doesn't mean to say he will find other women just as attractive. He may or may not but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder which is very true, one woman might be very attractive for one man, and not for another and even a put off, if that is the right expression.

Similarly a woman might find one man a "hunk" and another an "ok" guy or another put. It just depends, its personal, private, subjective, even related to ones cells, feelings, outlook, perception.

Of course there are common denominators for attraction: Good looks, voice, speech, the way one says things, attractive wear, and so on, but all these have variables and degrees of subjectivities.

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frogtalk 7 months ago

A guy can be extremely handsome but a total jerk. My suggestion: don't look on the outside. An moderate looking fellow can turn into the most handsome fellow in the world just because of his character.

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marwan asmar Hub Author 7 months ago

Exactly right.

ubanichijioke profile image

ubanichijioke Level 7 Commenter 7 months ago

I love the way you discussed this issue. Beauty is indeed in the eyes of the beholder. Another man's meat is another man's poison. Awesome and beautiful, i voted

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